by tax_schmax on Fri Jan 13, 2012 3:42 pm
Yes you can become a trustee. You need to be appointed by the other trustees. Your husband could become a trustee also. You can remove trustees although this can be complex. Taken in the round, you are proposing to remove someone you feel is unsuitable and seems to have no right as a beneficiary to the trust, and replacing them with yourself, or your husband who can directly or indirectly benefit from the trust. This could be construed as capable of putting too much power in your hands. If there are other beneficiaries, they might feel threatened without an impartial trustee in place. You should only consider removing a trustee if there is any risk to the trust. Things like fraud, insolvency, lack of communication, carelessness and things like that are good reasons, not having a close personal relationship with your mother would not be a good reason.
Your mother should probably be removed. Perhaps you should work alongside the existing trustees rather than without them. Hope this helps.