by cliffordpope on Sun Jan 01, 2012 12:28 pm
We are in a slightly similar position with my mother.
One thing you could try is investigating further help to enable him to continue in his own home, or at least prolong as long as possible.
There is more free or fixed price help available from social services than you might realise. Also even paid help from private providers is still cheap compared with a long-term prospect of loss of capital.
If he has his own reasonable income, presumably Attendance Allowance, and someone in the family can qualify for Carers Allowance, plus anything you are prepared to contribute too, it might add up to enough income to purchase a useful amount of care in his home.
just a thought - obviously circumstances vary.