by maths on Tue Mar 02, 2010 3:49 pm
The bottom line (i hate that expression !!) is whether you trust your dad to leave the house (or mother's interest therein) to you on his death. This purely a personal matter and only you know how your family works.
As an outside advisor the above still stands but one knows of numerous cases where at a later date, for a variety of reasons, parents change their minds and thus such advisor would tend to go with, as it were legal certainty (ie the trust stays), rather than relying on family bonds and verbal promises.
Nevertheless, only you know all the family interactions etc.