Bill a very good pickup and as I am accident prone please wish me luck. In fact for the last three months of her stay I let her partner stay with her and this may have influenced the typological error. My partner has a child by another and we keep a certain separation and stay weekends so no election was considered. Thanks for your input and humour. I am tempted to sell and offer myself as a possible lamb to slaughter, as renting is difficult with a troublesome noisy neighbour below (heavy bass)who makes me tiptoe on slippers on my "noisy" wooden flooring, citing me as a nuisance.
Bill I have looked up factually living - it was your sole mistake, not touche for mine but I feel less of a fool for pointing it out.
Regards and thanks for your help